How to encourage individuality in kids
Encouraging our kids to find their own individuality helps them feel confident and it boosts their self- esteem.
Encouraging our kids to find their own individuality helps them feel confident and it boosts their self- esteem. When given the freedom to find out what they like and don’t like, we see from an early age their little personalities and character develop. Traits like kindness and respect, curiosity and creativity will be carried into their grown-up life.
Here are 5 ways to encourage individuality in children:
Providing a variety of extracurricular activities such as sports, arts and clubs. By introducing activities like ballet or soccer or piano lessons, you are opening their minds to new possibilities. From there, they will let you know if they enjoy it or not! Visiting museums or going to the theatre or even signing up for a junior cooking class can provide meaningful exploration. It gives them the opportunity to learn and develop their particular set of skills and talents and discover who they are.
2. As your child grows, so will their interests. It is our job to support and be present for them with the things that they love. You might not be a fan of Super Mario Bros or Barbie or understand the humor in Diary of a Wimpy Kid BUT your kids love it! So if it’s something that brings them joy, we should acknowledge it. They are going through self-discovery right now, which is key for their development. Hey, you never know, you might get enjoyment from reading a Diary of a Wimpy Kid to your little one!
3. Show enthusiasm; when they are passionate or proud of something. By showing that you care means a lot to them, it helps them feel self-assured and certain. It gives them an identity that they are looking for and knowing that there are adults who are backing what they love.
4. Having open communication with your child is important. Talking to your kids about everything and anything, even at an early age, lets them know they can talk to you about anything. Humans are social beings and we are created for connection on a scientific level. We rely on our interpersonal skills and teaching these skills to our youngsters will guide them to know how to connect with oneself and with the world.
5. Be there when they go through changes. One day it's Paw Patrol, the next it's Bey Blades or ice skating to martial arts. As they develop into their teens, changes come fast and hard. They start exploring different types of clothes and changing their appearance or pursuing different interests. It’s those transitions that they are learning to become themselves and embracing who they are and that’s perfectly normal.
As parents and caregivers, it’s important to support and strengthen their dreams. It is those dreams that create who they will become. We shouldn’t downplay what their ambitions are. Maybe they dream of being a doctor or a race car driver or maybe their dream is being a toy tester! Rest assured that encouraging your child to believe that they are capable of anything is a positive message that allows them to embrace who they are, to stand out from the crowd and be their authentic self. Regardless of what the rest of the world might say!
In my book “Don’t All Cats Eat Chicken?” Cooper and Chloe demonstrate what it means to be an individual and embrace who they are. Grab your copy today and share this delightful story with your kids.
4 children’s books that inspire individuality
4 kid’s books that inspire individuality
This is my first blog post …thanks for being here!
Today, I would like to share with you my four favourite books about individuality that you can read with your little ones.
Chrysanthemum
By: Kevin Henkes
Chrysanthemum is a classic story that teaches the importance of individuality. It is about a little girl who loved her name growing up, but when she started school she thought her name was dreadful. At school, the other kids would make fun of her name. It is not until she meets her music teacher that Chrysanthemum discovers an appreciation for her name. It was from that point on, that the kids looked at Chrysanthemum admiringly. This tale has a personal anecdote for me because when my daughter was about 7 years old and in school, she did not like her name either. She is an identical twin and unlike her sister's very common name, she struggled with appreciating her beautiful and unique name. People would always mis-pronounce her name and always mistake it for a boy's name.It wasn’t until she read this book that she was able to embrace her name. And like the parents in the storybook, we know her name is absolutely perfect.This book provides a powerful message to young and impressionable minds that should be embraced if you find your child struggling with their uniqueness.I Like Myself
By: Karen Beaumont
It is about a little girl who likes herself just the way she is, inside and out. The story describes the various ways she is thankful for who she is. The story is filled with confidence and self-love.It is a rhyming book with abstract and fun illustrations and has a Dr. Suess- esque prose.I adore this book for the silly and fun way to appreciate yourself!Remarkably You
By: Pat Zietlow Miller
Remarkably You has beautifully hand drawn illustrations of children expressing their talents and skills throughout the story. It is a quick read with rhyming text that will captivate the youngest reader.The primary theme in this book is to look for the moments to let you be you and to believe in yourself and all your unique talents that you can share with the world.I highly recommend this book to indulge in with your little ones as it will leave you feeling self-assured and fearless.Don’t All Cats Eat Chicken?
By: Nicole Yearwood
“Don’t All Cats Eat Chicken?” is an ode to her two loveable cats, and the first story in The Chronicles of Cooper and Chloe series is a beautiful message about embracing who you are and trusting your own preferences, no matter what. This book is beautifully illustrated and will become a must-have on your little ones bookshelf.
Speaking of individuality, if you’re looking for a fun way to inspire individuality with your kiddos, be sure to download my free Cooper & Chloe colouring pages! They are the perfect pairing to DON’T ALL CATS EAT CHICKEN? and will inspire your little ones to take a page from Cooper & Chloe’s book and BE YOURSELF!
I discovered all these inspiring books at my local library. I encourage you to seek these wonderful books out if you find your child is anxious about their individuality and demonstrating their uniqueness. They can offer a fun and powerful way to discuss what it means to be unique.
“Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.”